Add golden test data for via exit route steering and fix via exit grant compilation to match Tailscale SaaS behavior. Includes MapResponse golden tests for via grant route steering verification.
Updates #2180
Add routable_ips and approved_routes fields to the node topology
definitions in all golden test files. These represent the subnet
routes actually advertised by nodes on the Tailscale SaaS network
during data capture:
Routes topology (92 files, 6 router nodes):
big-router: 10.0.0.0/8
subnet-router: 10.33.0.0/16
ha-router1: 192.168.1.0/24
ha-router2: 192.168.1.0/24
multi-router: 172.16.0.0/24
exit-node: 0.0.0.0/0, ::/0
ACL topology (199 files, 1 router node):
subnet-router: 10.33.0.0/16
Grants topology (203 files, 1 router node):
subnet-router: 10.33.0.0/16
The route assignments were deduced from the golden data by analyzing
which router nodes receive FilterRules for which destination CIDRs
across all test files, and cross-referenced with the MTS setup
script (setup_grant_nodes.sh).
Updates #2180
Rename tailscale_compat_test.go to tailscale_acl_compat_test.go to make room for the grants compat test. Add 237 GRANT-*.json golden test files captured from Tailscale SaaS and a data-driven test driver that compares headscale's grant filter compilation against real Tailscale behavior.
Updates #2180
