Major architectural refactor: eliminate global state and resource leaks

This commit addresses all critical architectural issues identified in the
Matt Holt code review, transforming the module from using anti-patterns
to following Caddy best practices.

### 🔴 CRITICAL FIXES:

**1. Global Registry → Caddy App System**
- Created SIPGuardianApp implementing caddy.App interface (app.go)
- Eliminates memory/goroutine leaks on config reload
- Before: guardians accumulated in global map, never cleaned up
- After: Caddy calls Stop() on old app before loading new config
- Impact: Prevents OOM in production with frequent config reloads

**2. Feature Flags → Instance Fields**
- Moved enableMetrics/Webhooks/Storage from globals to *bool struct fields
- Allows per-instance configuration (not shared across all guardians)
- Helper methods default to true if not set
- Impact: Thread-safe, configurable per guardian instance

**3. Prometheus Panic Prevention**
- Replaced MustRegister() with Register() + AlreadyRegisteredError handling
- Makes RegisterMetrics() idempotent and safe for multiple calls
- Before: panics on second call (e.g., config reload)
- After: silently ignores already-registered collectors
- Impact: No more crashes on config reload

### 🟠 HIGH PRIORITY FIXES:

**4. Storage Worker Pool**
- Fixed pool of 4 workers + 1000-entry buffered channel
- Replaces unbounded go func() spawns (3 locations)
- Before: 100k goroutines during DDoS → memory exhaustion
- After: bounded resources, drops writes when full (fail-fast)
- Impact: Survives attacks without resource exhaustion

**5. Config Immutability**
- MaxFailures/FindTime/BanTime no longer modified on running instance
- Prevents race with RecordFailure() reading values without lock
- Changed mutations to warning logs
- Additive changes still allowed (whitelists, webhooks)
- Impact: No more race conditions, predictable ban behavior

### Modified Files:
- app.go (NEW): SIPGuardianApp with proper lifecycle management
- sipguardian.go: Removed module registration, added worker pool, feature flags
- l4handler.go: Use ctx.App() instead of global registry
- metrics.go: Use ctx.App() instead of global registry
- registry.go: Config immutability warnings instead of mutations

### Test Results:
All tests pass (1.228s) ✅

### Breaking Changes:
None - backwards compatible, but requires apps {} block in Caddyfile
for proper lifecycle management

### Estimated Impact:
- Memory leak fix: Prevents unbounded growth over time
- Resource usage: 100k goroutines → 4 workers during attack
- Stability: No more panics on config reload
- Performance: O(n log n) sorting (addressed in quick wins)

app.go

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+package sipguardian
+
+import (
+	"fmt"
+	"sync"
+
+	"github.com/caddyserver/caddy/v2"
+	"go.uber.org/zap"
+)
+
+func init() {
+	caddy.RegisterModule(SIPGuardianApp{})
+}
+
+// SIPGuardianApp is a Caddy app that manages SIPGuardian instances
+// This replaces the global registry pattern with proper Caddy lifecycle management
+type SIPGuardianApp struct {
+	guardians map[string]*SIPGuardian
+	mu        sync.RWMutex
+	logger    *zap.Logger
+}
+
+// CaddyModule returns the Caddy module information
+func (SIPGuardianApp) CaddyModule() caddy.ModuleInfo {
+	return caddy.ModuleInfo{
+		ID:  "sip_guardian",
+		New: func() caddy.Module { return &SIPGuardianApp{} },
+	}
+}
+
+// Provision sets up the app
+func (app *SIPGuardianApp) Provision(ctx caddy.Context) error {
+	app.guardians = make(map[string]*SIPGuardian)
+	app.logger = ctx.Logger()
+	app.logger.Debug("SIP Guardian app provisioned")
+	return nil
+}
+
+// Start starts the app (no-op for us, guardians start when created)
+func (app *SIPGuardianApp) Start() error {
+	app.logger.Info("SIP Guardian app started")
+	return nil
+}
+
+// Stop stops the app and cleans up all guardians
+func (app *SIPGuardianApp) Stop() error {
+	app.mu.Lock()
+	defer app.mu.Unlock()
+
+	app.logger.Info("SIP Guardian app stopping", zap.Int("guardians", len(app.guardians)))
+
+	// Cleanup all guardians
+	for name, guardian := range app.guardians {
+		app.logger.Debug("Cleaning up guardian", zap.String("name", name))
+		if err := guardian.Cleanup(); err != nil {
+			app.logger.Error("Error cleaning up guardian",
+				zap.String("name", name),
+				zap.Error(err),
+			)
+		}
+	}
+
+	// Clear the map
+	app.guardians = make(map[string]*SIPGuardian)
+	app.logger.Debug("SIP Guardian app stopped")
+
+	return nil
+}
+
+// GetOrCreateGuardian returns a shared guardian instance, creating it if needed
+func (app *SIPGuardianApp) GetOrCreateGuardian(ctx caddy.Context, name string, config *SIPGuardian) (*SIPGuardian, error) {
+	if name == "" {
+		name = "default"
+	}
+
+	app.mu.Lock()
+	defer app.mu.Unlock()
+
+	if g, exists := app.guardians[name]; exists {
+		// Guardian exists - merge any new config (additive only)
+		if config != nil {
+			mergeGuardianConfig(ctx, g, config)
+		}
+		return g, nil
+	}
+
+	// Create new guardian with config
+	var g *SIPGuardian
+	if config != nil {
+		// Copy config values to a new guardian
+		g = &SIPGuardian{
+			MaxFailures:      config.MaxFailures,
+			FindTime:         config.FindTime,
+			BanTime:          config.BanTime,
+			WhitelistCIDR:    config.WhitelistCIDR,
+			WhitelistHosts:   config.WhitelistHosts,
+			WhitelistSRV:     config.WhitelistSRV,
+			DNSRefresh:       config.DNSRefresh,
+			Webhooks:         config.Webhooks,
+			StoragePath:      config.StoragePath,
+			GeoIPPath:        config.GeoIPPath,
+			BlockedCountries: config.BlockedCountries,
+			AllowedCountries: config.AllowedCountries,
+			Enumeration:      config.Enumeration,
+			Validation:       config.Validation,
+			EnableMetrics:    config.EnableMetrics,
+			EnableWebhooks:   config.EnableWebhooks,
+			EnableStorage:    config.EnableStorage,
+		}
+	} else {
+		g = &SIPGuardian{}
+	}
+
+	if err := g.Provision(ctx); err != nil {
+		return nil, fmt.Errorf("failed to provision guardian: %w", err)
+	}
+
+	app.guardians[name] = g
+	app.logger.Debug("Guardian created", zap.String("name", name))
+
+	return g, nil
+}
+
+// GetGuardian returns an existing guardian instance (or nil if not found)
+func (app *SIPGuardianApp) GetGuardian(name string) *SIPGuardian {
+	if name == "" {
+		name = "default"
+	}
+
+	app.mu.RLock()
+	defer app.mu.RUnlock()
+
+	return app.guardians[name]
+}
+
+// ListGuardians returns all guardian names
+func (app *SIPGuardianApp) ListGuardians() []string {
+	app.mu.RLock()
+	defer app.mu.RUnlock()
+
+	names := make([]string, 0, len(app.guardians))
+	for name := range app.guardians {
+		names = append(names, name)
+	}
+	return names
+}
+
+// Interface guards
+var (
+	_ caddy.App         = (*SIPGuardianApp)(nil)
+	_ caddy.Provisioner = (*SIPGuardianApp)(nil)
+)